It seems like relationships = drama, or at least a lot of them are that way.
I don't remember so much drama from when I was dating, but I also wasn't sleeping with the guys I was dating, and I think that adds to it. When women sleep with men, emotional attachments occur and that can lead to more drama if the guy isn't committed, or she's insecure, etc. Living together probably makes the drama worse because you can't go to your own corners and cool down.
One of the nice things about being married once, vs. living together with one guy after another (with or without the ring) - less drama.
My husband and I had most of our drama the first two years of our marriage. Now, we've worked out the kinks, we know each other, and there just isn't a lot of drama. We've reached detente. That means we have more energy for doing other things - so we waste less time.
I think it's just more productive for society as a whole and less wear and tear for individuals if they aren't having serial relationships. What do you think?
Of course, the problem also becomes - how do you find the right person to have the ONE relationship with... ;)
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